SocialOpen Loft Days: Coworking at HMU
Mon, Nov 2 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Requires Social membership — Apply here
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HMU Academy: Play Parties for Dummies
Mon, Nov 2 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
What even is a play party anyways? What should you expect? Will there be food? WHAT SHOULD YOU WEAR???? Let's de-mystify the process!
HMU Academy: Fear & Psychological Edge Play
Tue, Nov 3 · 7:00 PM – 9:15 PM
This workshop plunges into the thrilling world of psychological fear play, taking play beyond the physical and into the deliciously twisted
HMU Academy: How to Become a Professional Dominant
Wed, Nov 4 · 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Rewards, Risks, and Responsibilities of building a career in kink
HMU Academy: Understanding Partner-Sharing Dynamics
Thu, Nov 5 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
A facilitated discussion exploring partner-sharing dynamics through the lenses of consent, power, communication, and lived experience.
PrivateHMU Play: Halloween Never Dies
Sat, Nov 7 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM
Our classic Play Party, where Halloween is resurrected for one last night! Hit Me Up's private members-only event.
Requires Private membership — Apply here
SocialOpen Loft Days: Coworking at HMU
Mon, Nov 9 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Requires Social membership — Apply here
HMU: Kinky Mixer
Mon, Nov 9 · 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Join HMU at Medusa Art Studios Bar for a classic kinky mixer of new friends and old!
Fetish Figure Drawing x HMU: Spicy Edition
Wed, Nov 11 · 8:00 PM – 10:30 PM
Join us for a sexy live-model drink-and-draw experience, where models strike provocative poses, inspiring artists to their creativity. BYOB.
HMU BIPOC Friday the ThirTEASE
Fri, Nov 13 · 8:00 PM – 1:30 AM
A vetted kinky makeout event for BIPOC Hit Me Up members at the HMU Loft, with a spooky twist!
SocialOpen Loft Days: Coworking at HMU
Mon, Nov 16 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Requires Social membership — Apply here
HMU Academy: Exploring Subspace & the Psychological Benefits of Submission
Mon, Nov 16 · 7:30 PM – 9:00 PM
If you're curious about the psychological benefits of subspace & power dynamics through a strengths based perspective, this one's for you
HMU Tie Me Down: Rope Jam
Wed, Nov 18 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!
The Love Seat: A Dating Show
Fri, Nov 20 · 7:00 PM – 10:30 PM
A retro-inspired dating game show where local singles take center stage on their search for love.
SocialOpen Loft Days: Coworking at HMU
Mon, Nov 23 · 12:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Join the HMU team and our vetted + private members only for a shared co-working and content creation experience in the HMU Loft.
Requires Social membership — Apply here
HMU Academy: Universal Guardian Training
Tue, Nov 24 · 6:45 PM – 9:15 PM
Get trained to be an excellent supportive member of our community as a Guardian!
Original Sin
Fri, Dec 4 · 9:00 PM – 4:00 AM
NYC's premiere kink and play organizers come together for a unique night celebrating the sensual, the sultry, and the seductive.
