Join Hit Me Up
Hit Me Up is a community in New York City for people interested in polyamory, kink, and meaningful connection. Our membership tiers help us build trust and make space for different kinds of events.
Start with a free account
Create your account to become a Public member, explore the community, and find public events and classes. Membership is free; individual events may require tickets.
Membership tiers
All three tiers are free — they exist so we can vet the community and keep the space safer.
| Public | Social | Private | |
|---|---|---|---|
| How to join | Created account | Approved application | Approved sponsor |
| Public events | |||
| Social events | – | ||
| Classes | |||
| Private & intimate events | – | – | |
| Can request a sponsor | – | ||
| Can sponsor others | – | – | |
| Application required | – | ||
| Sponsor required | – | – |
All member tiers are free. Join our Patreon for more benefits!
Apply for Social membership
To attend Social events, complete the membership application in your account and wait for approval. Social is the tier previously called Vetted.
Private membership and sponsorship
Private membership also requires an approved sponsor. You can manage your application and sponsorship from your account. Check your membership status and each event's requirements before buying tickets.
Read our consent policy and frequently asked questions before applying. For help, visit Contact.
